I will always be a HUGE fan of holidays! I LOVE traditions, and spending time with family.
The thing with being newly re-married, is that some of the traditions I previously had were from the Tate side, and so now I have to try to create new traditions with my Speth family. While not completely changing too many things and disrupting what the kids and I have always known either.
It's the blending of two and a half families. Harrington, Speth, and some Tate.
One thing I loved about the Tates, was that every 4th of July we would get together to do a big cookout at their house, play games outside, set off our own fireworks in their driveway, and then all of us would head to Purdue University to watch the fireworks on Slater Hill. They were the best fireworks...only because when you would lay down, you could look up and the fireworks and it looked as if they were coming down right on top of you! I went there for about 20 years, I never realized how much I missed it until I moved here to Arizona.
Well, here in Arizona they charge you to go and see the fireworks. Yeah, you read that right...you have to pay money to celebrate our country's freedom. Plus, there is no grass because we are in the desert, so we would have to watch them in a dirt field. We had only been home from our honeymoon about 24 hours, and we were still really tired, and were quickly trying to adjust to being a family. I had the best plans of a big cookout, with friends and family, and then off to see the fireworks. Well, it didn't happen. First off, I was new here and had no friends. Second, the Speth family doesn't do cookouts on the forth, and third, we had to pay for the fireworks, and my new sweet hubby didn't want to spend the money just to fight the crowds. So instead Brandon and Noah headed out to buy some fireworks, and we set them off in the driveway with just our little family of 5. It worked.
It was uneventful, and to tell you the truth, I was a little homesick all at once. I missed my traditions. And I missed family.
I was/am so grateful to be married to such an amazing husband, but clearly blending two families all over again, and starting off with our own new traditions was going to be harder than I thought...as least emotionally.
Next year I will plan a little further ahead and make it a GREAT holiday and start some of our own new traditions!